He’s back on the market again.
That guy who broke your heart and started dating a new woman? Well, you just found out that he’s broken up with her. And that makes you wonder …
Does that mean you can get him back?
It may …
And it may not.
Before we can figure it out and know if you have a chance at winning him back …
We have to ask a few questions:
Why did he break up with his ex girlfriend?
This is something you want to know. A lot of women will just assume that it’s the other woman’s fault, especially if they really want their ex boyfriend back. While that may very well be true … you are going to want to know for sure.
People can change, even in a very short period of time, and you are going to want to know if your ex boyfriend is still the guy you remember.
It may not always be possible to find out exactly why they broke up, but often you can get a sense of what might have happened from either him or someone who might know the situation.
Are you sure that you’d like to have him back as your boyfriend?
Time can be funny. They say it heals all wounds but what they don’t say is that it can kind of “trick” the heart as well. You can get caught up in thinking that you want him back and building a fantasy, when the reality might not actually be what you think it is.
You want to really be careful to make sure that you DO want your ex boyfriend back NOW as your boyfriend. He may not be the same exact guy he was when you were last dating. You might not be the same exact woman you were.
Put some careful and considerate thought into whether or not you’d like to have him back.
Do you know how to get him back now that he’s broken up with his new girlfriend?
This is important. If you do know that you want him back and you’ve thought it all through, you are going to need a plan to make it come true. The bad part is? It’s not always easy to figure out what to do to win back an ex boyfriend.
There is good news.
There are those who DO know exactly what to do and they are more than willing to share with you exactly what works to win back an ex boyfriend.